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OK, so I might be a little late to respond to this, but oh well.
Wheatables--
Don't put so much pressure on yourself. The girl must be remotely interested, or she would never have agreed to go out with you in the first place. Flowers are nice, but in my opinion, a little cheesy. Do something FUN with her that does not fall into the category of predictable dates. Go to dinner, then do something stupid. Go ride go-karts, go play frisbee, do something unexpected. That is where you'll earn your points. Best date I ever had--guy picked me up, took me to the Italian Inn, then we went and played frisbee, then just sat on the back of his car and talked for a really long time. That's the kind of stuff I like to do--talk, and play frisbee, that kind of thing, so even though another girl might think that night sucked, I loved it. It's all about finding out what SHE likes to do. It's nice to be treated to a night on the town, but it means more if the guy does something because he knows we like it.
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Wheatables, I was recently in a similiar situation. The girl I was interested in was being pressured by her roommate to go out this guy that was into her. She didn't want to, but also wanted her roommate off her back about it. So she went on the date. Had a good time for all I know. The next night we had a wonderful time. Went to dinner, and not trying to out do the guy the night previous, we just went for drinks, and hung out and talked. It was really a good deal because all these people before are right. She liked me for me, not for where I took her or trying to out do the other guy. and Erin, not every girl likes flowers, ie. my date (wierd I know, but still). And being the closet romantic that I am, decided to just enjoy each others company took one of those horse drawn carriage rides around downtown Dallas. One of the best dates I had been on in a long time. Wheat, just go with the flow.
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Wheatables (what's that name about anyway),
Ok, so this girl did all the mushy stuff (dinner, movie, ice cream, etc.) on that date last night, right? Go ahead and start out at Cenare; it's a nice place with good atmosphere. She's thinking, "Gosh, this guy's pretty swell but is this gonna be a carbon copy of last night?" You say, "How about a movie?" She's like, "Great, another movie." That's when you turn on the flava. College Station's only porn movie shop is only ONE BLOCK away from Cenare. Coincidence? I think not. Use the force Luke. Use the force.
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So this is very personal and random, but I could use some advice. There is a girl that I really like, but she had a date with another guy tonight and she is going out with me tomorrow. She didn't want to go out on a date with him, and was practically all about me, but things changed. He got his idea for the date (flowers, oxford street, movie, ice cream) completely from one of his old friends who is also good friends with the girl. This friend is one of my close friends, and he gave this guy the advice months ago for another girl. Oh how it came back to kick me in the ass. The girl completely knows he ripped this date off, but still had fun. He is a massive tool for that in my opinion, but hey...fuggedaboutit. So now that I am worried about my chances and have already been losing sleep before this incident, what do I do? What do I bring her? I know where I am taking her (Cenare) but I have no idea what to bring her or where to take her right after. We are meeting some friends later on at Shadow though. Sorry for turning this into "Loveline", but hey....various opinions matter.
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